The Truth About Prayer

Preface: The Final Sermon and a Turning Point

Wel­come, dear read­ers. What fol­lows is the record of the last ser­mon I ever deliv­ered as Asso­ciate Pas­tor at my local church—a ser­mon that became a cat­a­lyst for pro­found change in my life and min­istry.

In that ser­vice, I dared to spot­light a stark bib­li­cal truth: that God does not enter­tain the prayers of the wicked. Rather than fos­ter­ing a con­struc­tive dis­cus­sion, my pas­tor respond­ed by launch­ing into a ten-minute tirade against my mes­sage. With dis­mis­sive brava­do, he assured any “wicked” con­gre­gants, “If you’re wicked, don’t wor­ry about it.” He claimed there were thou­sands of vers­es prov­ing me wrong, even con­clud­ing with, “There are so many vers­es in the Bible con­tra­dict­ing what Peter said, I won’t both­er quot­ing any of them.”

Appar­ent­ly, he’s a proud evan­ge­list of uni­ver­sal­ism, wav­ing it around like a divine decree—brushing off not only my ser­mon’s con­cerns but also toss­ing Christ and the Apos­tles and their writ­ing into a the­o­log­i­cal waste bin with­out so much as a sec­ond thought.

I sat there in disbelief—my wife equal­ly stunned—as he spent those min­utes pan­der­ing to a seg­ment of the con­gre­ga­tion while, in my view, dis­hon­or­ing the Word of God. In the after­math of the ser­vice, I approached him with the hope of dis­cussing what had just tran­spired, extend­ing my hand in a ges­ture of rec­on­cil­i­a­tion. Instead of engag­ing, he turned away—avoiding eye con­tact and any sem­blance of account­abil­i­ty. For a week, my calls and texts went unan­swered, a silence that spoke vol­umes about his unwill­ing­ness to face what I con­sid­er a grave error.

Even­tu­al­ly, the final straw was drawn: I left the church and resigned from my (unpaid) posi­tion as Asso­ciate Pas­tor. In hind­sight, I rec­og­nize the warn­ing signs I had ignored for far too long.

Now, hav­ing shared these per­son­al reflec­tions and the cir­cum­stances lead­ing to my depar­ture, I invite you to read the ser­mon that, in my view, exposed the hypocrisy and cow­ardice of a hireling. May it serve as both a tes­ti­mo­ny and a chal­lenge to us all to stand firm in our convictions—even when it comes at great per­son­al cost.

Part 1: The Unshakable Call to Prayer

King Solomon, after years of metic­u­lous con­struc­tion, final­ly com­plet­ed the tem­ple of the Lord along with his own palace. His vision had been ful­filled, and in this moment of tri­umph, God Him­self appeared to Solomon in the dead of night with a mes­sage that would echo through his­to­ry.

God declared,

“I have heard your prayer and cho­sen this place as a house of sac­ri­fice.”

2 Chromi­cles 7:12

But then came the conditions—warnings, really—about what would hap­pen if the peo­ple turned away from Him. If the heav­ens were shut, if locusts devoured the land, if plagues swept through His peo­ple, there was one key to restora­tion: humil­i­ty, prayer, seek­ing God’s face, and repen­tance. Then, and only then, would God hear from heav­en, for­give their sin, and heal their land.

Now, enter the mod­ern-day schol­ars who insist this pas­sage was only meant for ancient Israel. They claim it’s not rel­e­vant to us today. Well, let’s call that what it is—utter non­sense! Every word of the Bible applies to us. God did not draft His eter­nal decrees with an aster­isk for the­olo­gians to amend at their con­ve­nience. His Word, His rules, His way—yesterday, today, and for­ev­er.

Hebrews 13:8 reminds us:

Jesus Christ is the same yes­ter­day, today, and for­ev­er.

Eccle­si­astes 1:9 con­firms:

There is noth­ing new under the sun.

The same God who spoke to Solomon is the same God we call upon now.

Prayer is not for God’s benefit—He’s not some lone­ly deity des­per­ate for con­ver­sa­tion. We need prayer. It sus­tains our spir­its just as food sus­tains our bod­ies. And just like food, it requires effort. You don’t mag­i­cal­ly receive a meal while loung­ing on the couch. Like­wise, a pow­er­ful prayer life doesn’t hap­pen by acci­dent.

Paul lays it out in 2 Thes­sa­lo­ni­ans 3:10:

“If any­one is not will­ing to work, then he is not to eat, either.”

The same prin­ci­ple applies to prayer. If we want spir­i­tu­al nour­ish­ment, if we want to expe­ri­ence the full­ness of God’s pres­ence, we have to work for it. That means set­ting aside time, putting in the effort, and pri­or­i­tiz­ing prayer as the neces­si­ty it tru­ly is.

Part 2: The Misconception of Prayer and God’s Audience

2 Chron­i­cles 7:14 makes it abun­dant­ly clear—prayer alone is not enough. The verse doesn’t just call for prayer; it calls for humil­i­ty, seek­ing God, and turn­ing from wicked­ness. Only then does God promise to hear, for­give, and heal the land. But who exact­ly is God speak­ing to here? His peo­ple. Not the world at large, not those liv­ing in open rebel­lion, but those called by His name.

Mod­ern the­ol­o­gy has been watered down with a feel-good, inclu­sive lie that sug­gests God lis­tens to every­one and loves every­one uncon­di­tion­al­ly. You’ve heard it before—

“God hates the sin but loves the sin­ner.”

Guess what? That phrase is nowhere in Scrip­ture.

Let me make this crys­tal clear—God strict­ly for­bids adding to or sub­tract­ing from His Word. Tak­ing some sug­ary, human-invent­ed, feel-good non­sense and slap­ping a “Thus saith the Lord” on it isn’t just misleading—it’s out­right dan­ger­ous, and there will be con­se­quences.

Attribut­ing false infor­ma­tion to the Bible is a seri­ous issue because it dis­torts God’s word and mis­leads oth­ers. Scrip­ture itself warns against this in sev­er­al places. Here is the great­est dan­ger, again, sup­port­ed by Bible vers­es:

God’s Warn­ing Against Adding or Tak­ing Away From His Word

  • Deuteron­o­my 4:2“You shall not add to the word that I com­mand you, nor take from it, that you may keep the com­mand­ments of the LORD your God that I com­mand you.”
  • Proverbs 30:5–6“Every word of God proves true; he is a shield to those who take refuge in him. Do not add to his words, lest he rebuke you and you be found a liar.”
  • Rev­e­la­tion 22:18–19“I warn every­one who hears the words of the prophe­cy of this book: if any­one adds to them, God will add to him the plagues described in this book, and if any­one takes away from the words of the book of this prophe­cy, God will take away his share in the tree of life and in the holy city, which are described in this book.”
  • Let’s look at real­ly IS in scrip­ture, now:

    “The LORD tests the right­eous and the wicked, and His soul hates one who loves vio­lence.”

    Psalm 11:5

    You hate all who do injus­tice… The LORD loathes the per­son of blood­shed and deceit.”

    Psalm 5:4–6

    God’s holi­ness demands sep­a­ra­tion from evil. Many strug­gle with this truth because Chris­tians are com­mand­ed to love—our neigh­bors, our ene­mies, even those who per­se­cute us (Matthew 5:44). But God is not bound by the same com­mand. He is the right­eous Judge, the One who holds the author­i­ty to love and to hate, to redeem and to con­demn.

    “We know that God does not lis­ten to sin­ners; but if some­one is God-fear­ing and does His will, He lis­tens to him.”

    John 9:31

    God does not hear the prayers of the wicked, the unright­eous or the unsaved. The only prayer He lis­tens to from an unbe­liev­er is one of repen­tance.

    Part 3: The Right Approach to God in Prayer

    When we come to God with our needs, we must approach Him in the same way He demand­ed of Israel. His con­di­tions for hear­ing our prayers are crys­tal clear:

    “If My peo­ple who are called by My name hum­ble them­selves, and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heav­en, and I will for­give their sin and will heal their land.”

    2 Chron­i­cles 7:14

    Look at what is required before God even promis­es to lis­ten:

    • Humil­i­ty – “Hum­ble them­selves”
    • Prayer – “Pray”
    • Seek­ing God’s Will – “Seek My face”
    • Repen­tance – “Turn from their wicked ways”

    It’s not just about pray­ing. God ties humil­i­ty, wor­ship, and repen­tance as pre­req­ui­sites for His response. This isn’t a nego­ti­a­tion. It’s not a “Let’s Make a Deal” arrange­ment. God sets His own terms for lis­ten­ing to us in the first place.

    James 4:3–4 explains why many prayers go unan­swered:

    “You ask and do not receive, because you ask with the wrong motives, so that you may spend what you request on your plea­sures. You adul­ter­ess­es, do you not know that friend­ship with the world is hos­til­i­ty toward God?”

    If your prayers are hit­ting the ceil­ing, it’s time for some self-exam­i­na­tion.

    Part 4: The Church’s Responsibility in Prayer

    STOP BLAMING THE WORLD.

    Quit expect­ing the world to fix what is bro­ken. The CHURCH is at fault. We have become so des­per­ate for the world’s approval that we have dri­ven God to turn His face away from us.

    “Do not be con­formed to this world, but be trans­formed by the renew­ing of your mind.”

    Romans 12:2

    “Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If any­one loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.”

    1 John 2:15

    If your prayers seem to be going unan­swered, take an hon­est look at your­self:

    • Are you saved? That must come first.
    • Are you ask­ing with the right motives? (Matthew 6:9–10)
    • Are you try­ing to be friends with the world?
    • Have you hum­bled your­self?
    • Have you tru­ly sought God’s face and His will?
    • Have you repent­ed?

    Once we have pre­pared our­selves accord­ing to God’s stan­dards, THEN and only then will He hear and answer our prayers.

    Part 5: Closing Thoughts on Prayer

    Once we have aligned our­selves with God’s will, let’s remem­ber Jesus’ prin­ci­ples for prayer:

    • Pray in secret. (Matthew 6:5–6).
    • Let go of anx­i­ety. (Matthew 6:25–34, Philip­pi­ans 4:6–7).
    • Live a life of con­tin­u­ous prayer. (1 Thes­sa­lo­ni­ans 5:16–18).
    • Pray in Jesus’ name. (John 14:13–14).

    Final­ly, remem­ber: Some­times God’s answer is NO. His will is greater than our under­stand­ing.

    Matthew 6:9–13 gives us the per­fect mod­el for prayer. If we keep our focus on His king­dom and His right­eous­ness, all oth­er things will be added to us. May we live lives of con­tin­u­ous, hum­ble, and faith-filled prayer, know­ing that He hears us, and His will is per­fect.