The Truth About Prayer
Preface: The Final Sermon and a Turning Point
Welcome, dear readers. What follows is the record of the last sermon I ever delivered as Associate Pastor at my local church—a sermon that became a catalyst for profound change in my life and ministry.
In that service, I dared to spotlight a stark biblical truth: that God does not entertain the prayers of the wicked. Rather than fostering a constructive discussion, my pastor responded by launching into a ten-minute tirade against my message. With dismissive bravado, he assured any “wicked” congregants, “If you’re wicked, don’t worry about it.” He claimed there were thousands of verses proving me wrong, even concluding with, “There are so many verses in the Bible contradicting what Peter said, I won’t bother quoting any of them.”
Apparently, he’s a proud evangelist of universalism, waving it around like a divine decree—brushing off not only my sermon’s concerns but also tossing Christ and the Apostles and their writing into a theological waste bin without so much as a second thought.
I sat there in disbelief—my wife equally stunned—as he spent those minutes pandering to a segment of the congregation while, in my view, dishonoring the Word of God. In the aftermath of the service, I approached him with the hope of discussing what had just transpired, extending my hand in a gesture of reconciliation. Instead of engaging, he turned away—avoiding eye contact and any semblance of accountability. For a week, my calls and texts went unanswered, a silence that spoke volumes about his unwillingness to face what I consider a grave error.
Eventually, the final straw was drawn: I left the church and resigned from my (unpaid) position as Associate Pastor. In hindsight, I recognize the warning signs I had ignored for far too long.
Now, having shared these personal reflections and the circumstances leading to my departure, I invite you to read the sermon that, in my view, exposed the hypocrisy and cowardice of a hireling. May it serve as both a testimony and a challenge to us all to stand firm in our convictions—even when it comes at great personal cost.
Part 1: The Unshakable Call to Prayer
King Solomon, after years of meticulous construction, finally completed the temple of the Lord along with his own palace. His vision had been fulfilled, and in this moment of triumph, God Himself appeared to Solomon in the dead of night with a message that would echo through history.
God declared,
“I have heard your prayer and chosen this place as a house of sacrifice.”
2 Chromicles 7:12
But then came the conditions—warnings, really—about what would happen if the people turned away from Him. If the heavens were shut, if locusts devoured the land, if plagues swept through His people, there was one key to restoration: humility, prayer, seeking God’s face, and repentance. Then, and only then, would God hear from heaven, forgive their sin, and heal their land.
Now, enter the modern-day scholars who insist this passage was only meant for ancient Israel. They claim it’s not relevant to us today. Well, let’s call that what it is—utter nonsense! Every word of the Bible applies to us. God did not draft His eternal decrees with an asterisk for theologians to amend at their convenience. His Word, His rules, His way—yesterday, today, and forever.
Hebrews 13:8 reminds us:
Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.
Ecclesiastes 1:9 confirms:
There is nothing new under the sun.
The same God who spoke to Solomon is the same God we call upon now.
Prayer is not for God’s benefit—He’s not some lonely deity desperate for conversation. We need prayer. It sustains our spirits just as food sustains our bodies. And just like food, it requires effort. You don’t magically receive a meal while lounging on the couch. Likewise, a powerful prayer life doesn’t happen by accident.
Paul lays it out in 2 Thessalonians 3:10:
“If anyone is not willing to work, then he is not to eat, either.”
The same principle applies to prayer. If we want spiritual nourishment, if we want to experience the fullness of God’s presence, we have to work for it. That means setting aside time, putting in the effort, and prioritizing prayer as the necessity it truly is.
Part 2: The Misconception of Prayer and God’s Audience
2 Chronicles 7:14 makes it abundantly clear—prayer alone is not enough. The verse doesn’t just call for prayer; it calls for humility, seeking God, and turning from wickedness. Only then does God promise to hear, forgive, and heal the land. But who exactly is God speaking to here? His people. Not the world at large, not those living in open rebellion, but those called by His name.
Modern theology has been watered down with a feel-good, inclusive lie that suggests God listens to everyone and loves everyone unconditionally. You’ve heard it before—
“God hates the sin but loves the sinner.”
Guess what? That phrase is nowhere in Scripture.
Let me make this crystal clear—God strictly forbids adding to or subtracting from His Word. Taking some sugary, human-invented, feel-good nonsense and slapping a “Thus saith the Lord” on it isn’t just misleading—it’s outright dangerous, and there will be consequences.
Attributing false information to the Bible is a serious issue because it distorts God’s word and misleads others. Scripture itself warns against this in several places. Here is the greatest danger, again, supported by Bible verses:
God’s Warning Against Adding or Taking Away From His Word
Let’s look at really IS in scripture, now:
“The LORD tests the righteous and the wicked, and His soul hates one who loves violence.”
Psalm 11:5
You hate all who do injustice… The LORD loathes the person of bloodshed and deceit.”
Psalm 5:4–6
God’s holiness demands separation from evil. Many struggle with this truth because Christians are commanded to love—our neighbors, our enemies, even those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). But God is not bound by the same command. He is the righteous Judge, the One who holds the authority to love and to hate, to redeem and to condemn.
“We know that God does not listen to sinners; but if someone is God-fearing and does His will, He listens to him.”
John 9:31
God does not hear the prayers of the wicked, the unrighteous or the unsaved. The only prayer He listens to from an unbeliever is one of repentance.
Part 3: The Right Approach to God in Prayer
When we come to God with our needs, we must approach Him in the same way He demanded of Israel. His conditions for hearing our prayers are crystal clear:
“If My people who are called by My name humble themselves, and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land.”
2 Chronicles 7:14
Look at what is required before God even promises to listen:
- Humility – “Humble themselves”
- Prayer – “Pray”
- Seeking God’s Will – “Seek My face”
- Repentance – “Turn from their wicked ways”
It’s not just about praying. God ties humility, worship, and repentance as prerequisites for His response. This isn’t a negotiation. It’s not a “Let’s Make a Deal” arrangement. God sets His own terms for listening to us in the first place.
James 4:3–4 explains why many prayers go unanswered:
“You ask and do not receive, because you ask with the wrong motives, so that you may spend what you request on your pleasures. You adulteresses, do you not know that friendship with the world is hostility toward God?”
If your prayers are hitting the ceiling, it’s time for some self-examination.
Part 4: The Church’s Responsibility in Prayer
STOP BLAMING THE WORLD.
Quit expecting the world to fix what is broken. The CHURCH is at fault. We have become so desperate for the world’s approval that we have driven God to turn His face away from us.
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Romans 12:2
“Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.”
1 John 2:15
If your prayers seem to be going unanswered, take an honest look at yourself:
- Are you saved? That must come first.
- Are you asking with the right motives? (Matthew 6:9–10)
- Are you trying to be friends with the world?
- Have you humbled yourself?
- Have you truly sought God’s face and His will?
- Have you repented?
Once we have prepared ourselves according to God’s standards, THEN and only then will He hear and answer our prayers.
Part 5: Closing Thoughts on Prayer
Once we have aligned ourselves with God’s will, let’s remember Jesus’ principles for prayer:
- Pray in secret. (Matthew 6:5–6).
- Let go of anxiety. (Matthew 6:25–34, Philippians 4:6–7).
- Live a life of continuous prayer. (1 Thessalonians 5:16–18).
- Pray in Jesus’ name. (John 14:13–14).
Finally, remember: Sometimes God’s answer is NO. His will is greater than our understanding.
Matthew 6:9–13 gives us the perfect model for prayer. If we keep our focus on His kingdom and His righteousness, all other things will be added to us. May we live lives of continuous, humble, and faith-filled prayer, knowing that He hears us, and His will is perfect.
